If you don’t oppose abortion, you can’t join the Republican Party.
If you don’t support the LGBTQ community, you can’t join the Democratic Party.
That, right there, is why this nation is so divided these days.
Both political parties have become one-issue parties. They may say otherwise (or they may not), but that’s the bottom line.
No one asks about the root causes of either issue, because no one wants to dig deep for truth in our shallow, social media-centered society.
Why do women want an abortion in the first place? All we hear about is rape victims, but I’m guessing the issue is far more widespread – and complicated – than that.
Why are LGBTQ people not attracted to people of the opposite gender? They’ll say, publicly anyway, they were born that way. I’m not buying that. What, gay or lesbian, in your past caused you to reject intimacy from a person of the opposite sex?
In my unprofessional opinion, both issues have the same root cause: the breakdown of the nuclear family.
We are looking for love and acceptance in places that don’t give us, deep down, what we truly need.
We live life through our minds, and not through our hearts. Or vice versa.
We either bury our hearts deep inside our psyche (this is what I do), or we expose our hearts in unhealthy ways on social media.
Some issues are not meant for public consumption. We need to deal with them at home or in a counselor’s office.
Democrats and Republicans have seized on different parts of our sex-saturated society and turned abortion and same-sex relationships into political issues. Where can we compromise on either issue, that is, find common ground?
By pursuing the root causes.
By digging deeper than our culture permits these days.
Meaningless, but pretty
So far, this is a shallow post, and that’s my point. It’s easy to sit in my La-Z-Boy and point fingers at people who hold different views than I do.
Before we bought our house two years ago, I noticed there’s a star prominently placed on the front. I did a little research on that to make sure it wasn’t making a statement on an issue I couldn’t support. It’s not. It’s harmless.
According to Wikipedia, a barnstar (or barn star, primitive star, or Pennsylvania star) is a painted object or image, often in the shape of a five-pointed star … used to decorate a barn in some parts of the United States, and many rural homes in Canada. … They are especially common in Pennsylvania and frequently seen in German-American farming communities. … Barnstars remain a popular form of decoration, and modern houses are sometimes decorated with simple, metal, five-pointed stars which the makers describe as “barn-star.”
I’m glad the star didn’t have a subliminal meaning. It’s just pretty.
We are pressed to construct our lives that way, too. Meaningless, but pretty.
Don’t offend anyone. Don’t get involved.
If you want to show your courage, join a political party. Just not a church. That’s off-limits, because churches are narrow-minded and judgmental. Except the ones that aren’t.
Actually, both political parties are more narrow-minded than any church is. Did you know that? No, because your mind is already made up.
Both parties want one-issue voters. That’s as narrow as you can get.
News flash: There’s more to life than sex.
But maybe not. As a friend is describing in short social media posts, pornography is pervasive, especially in the United States. It’s also a silent sin. We can, and do, hide it very well.
Sex and intimacy should go together. But often they don’t. That, in my opinion, is why pornography is so prevalent. We’re looking for intimacy in the wrong places.
And we aren’t finding it.
In response, we hurt ourselves and others. In many ways. Deeply.
We retreat or lash out
To protect ourselves, we stay shallow. We bury our hearts. We don’t risk emotional pain.
Either that, or we go too far the other way – put our emotional pain out there for all to see.
I’d rather hide. The #metoo movement just confirms for me that women are unapproachable, that they don’t want a deep relationship with a man. Women have been burned too many times, so they push us away.
As men, we either retreat or lash out. Neither response is healthy, but those are our options.
I’m oversimplifying, of course, but maybe not by much.
How do we reconcile? How do we overcome our differences, as men and women, introverts and extroverts, Democrats, Republicans and independents?
I listen to a lot of contemporary Christian music, and while the tunes are catchy, most of it is pop psychology and not true faith. It’s shallow.
Dear Abby and Ask Amy are shallow.
Social media is shallow. Does our president even know this? Why does he get so bent out of shape by what he sees there?
Where do we find true meaning in life? Is there a way to pursue root causes, to seek our purpose, without consequences that hurt other people?
I know the answer to that question, but that doesn’t mean I’ve found it yet.
The answer is the living God. Not your God or my God, or what passes for God in our culture (or any other culture). Truth is truth, whether anyone believes it or not.
The living God has our best interests in mind. And in heart.
God sees the big picture, which we do not. Many of us refuse to accept this. We want the big picture too. But we can’t have it. If we could, then we would be gods controlling the universe. But we aren’t, and we can’t.
We don’t want to admit this, so we stay shallow. We won’t seek truth because we don’t think we’ll like what we’ll find there.
Truth hurts. My heart has been bleeding for a long time now. I keep my deep thoughts private, so I won’t give you details. God promises healing, but am I willing to open myself up to that?
It’s not a simple question. It’s a very deep question, actually.
Maybe someday, I’ll have an answer.
Some of you have found the answer, and are living it. Most of us have not.
This is the struggle our world gives us.
One day …