We like to control God – and we can at Christmas

Jesus’ birth was very much planned. Just not by us.

I write that comment on this meme almost every time I see it.

I nearly always get push-back from my Christian friends who post this meme.

Why?

Because they are using this meme to make a political statement.

Mary didn’t plan to get pregnant. As a young single woman (she was engaged but not married), having a child out of wedlock was very much frowned upon in her culture.

Her fiancé, Joseph, planned to divorce her quietly – a thoughtful, caring response. He could have had her killed.

An angel told Joseph not to do that, but instead to marry her and raise the child as his own. He would not be an ordinary child, but would be the savior of the world.

A higher purpose

Today’s American pro-life movement uses this scene to say the living God is against all abortions. Life is life, whether it’s planned (by us) or not. Otherwise, our Savior never would have been born.

Well, yes. And no.

The living God controlled the circumstances involving Jesus’ birth, and it was going to happen the way God wanted it to happen.

Was abortion even a thing in Jesus’ day? I have no idea. It’s not mentioned in the Bible. If it’s noted in writings from that time period (or earlier), I’m not aware of it. Of course, that doesn’t mean anything. Abortion could have been practiced then.

As I’ve written previously, there are many reasons for a woman to get an abortion. Not all of them involve birth control. Rape. Forced abortion by an abusive boyfriend/husband. Life-threatening medical issues with the mother. Lack of support from family and/or friends.

I’m sure there are other reasons.

Jesus’ birth is so much more than a political statement. As my Christian friends know, Jesus is the savior of the world.

The serpent ruined it

We like to see Jesus in a warm, fuzzy manger scene surrounded by his parents, the wise men (who came later, by the way), some farm animals and a shepherd or two. We like to see Jesus as a baby – helpless, depending on his parents, especially his mother, for his very life.

Jesus came to Earth as a baby to prove his humanity.

We love to give gifts to each other and to the needy at Christmas, because God gave us the gift of his son.

But God’s gift to us grew up. He didn’t stay in the manger.

Humanity started in the garden of Eden. It was perfect, beautiful, life-giving, colorful, romantic, enjoyable in every way.

Until that serpent came along and ruined it.

That’s why God sent his son, Jesus, to Earth. The serpent destroyed the good that God created. Human beings couldn’t overcome it, and eventually God had enough.

By sending Jesus to Earth, God declared war on that serpent, also known as Satan or the devil. Jesus was going to fight Satan on Satan’s turf: Earth.

Jesus becomes human

To do that, Jesus had to be human, so he could fully understand the human condition. That’s why he was born a baby.

He also was fully God. In a human body.

I don’t know how else to explain that.

Jesus was born a baby, but he didn’t stay in the manger very long. He spent some time as a young child in Egypt, then grew up in Nazareth.

When the time was right, Jesus began a very public ministry that caught the attention of everyone he came in contact with. He was about 30 years old.

The religious leaders of the day didn’t like what he said or did, because he threatened their egos and power structure. They were using the church to keep themselves in control at the expense of the people under them.

Most ordinary people who saw and heard him were intrigued. When Jesus challenged them to “follow me,” few did. Instead, most walked away.

Jesus didn’t pursue them. He just went to the next village and delivered his message there.

Eventually, the religious leaders couldn’t take his words and actions anymore. They crucified him.

That was exactly what the living God wanted them to do. That’s how Jesus was going to defeat Satan on Satan’s battleground.

And it worked.

That’s what Easter is about. The empty tomb.

The toughest sin of all

We like the baby in the manger because we can control him. He’s helpless. He’s God, but we rule over him. That’s the way we like God.

But that’s not why Jesus came.

On the cross, the religious leaders thought they could control him by killing him, removing him from the scene.

Imagine their shock when the stone was rolled away and the tomb was empty on Sunday morning. They tried to explain that away, refusing to accept the fact that they lost the war with Jesus.

It didn’t matter. Jesus won.

He defeated death. He defeated Satan and all Satan stood for.

And the story began with a baby in a manger. With a declaration of war.

Abortion is one sin that Jesus died for. It’s not the unforgivable sin (which is willingly and knowingly rejecting Jesus’ lordship, after carefully considering it). Abortion can be forgiven, as can every sin. (Sin, by the way, is doing something that the living God would not approve of.)

We should try to avoid sin, all sin, if possible. When we fail, we seek forgiveness – which Jesus gives us because he died on the cross.

All we have to do is accept it.

But that means giving up control of our lives. It means seeing Jesus as the risen savior – not as a baby in a manger.

Control. That might be the toughest sin.

We have to give it up.

I’m still working on it.

This is the message of Christmas. Satan controlled Earth until that first Christmas. He doesn’t anymore. Because of the cross.

Because that baby grew up, and fulfilled his purpose in life.

Jesus came as a baby so he could understand us. Let’s give thanks for that. And for what came after.

Merry Christmas.

Leadership that works, or not

Vladimir Putin is running a destructive war in a foreign country.

Xi Jinping is enforcing a COVID-19 lockdown that is threatening his nation’s welfare.

The living God ordered the people of Israel to “make for yourselves no idols … I am the Lord (Leviticus 26:1-2).”

What’s the difference between the three?

The first two are world leaders who care nothing for the people they oversee. They rule with an iron hand to keep themselves in power.

The third one established laws and decrees for the benefit of the people he leads.

That’s a huge difference.

Putin, Russia

Putin, the president of Russia, is seeking control of Ukraine, a former Soviet Union vassal. He continues to target civilians and their infrastructure, destroying their heating and light sources as winter sets in. Putin invaded Ukraine on Feb. 24 hoping for a quick overthrow of the Ukrainian government. That didn’t happen. As a result, millions of Ukrainians have been displaced inside and outside their own country, and huge chunks of civilian centerpieces – apartment buildings, schools, electricity grids and other sites – have been and continue to be destroyed.

Putin has no interest in serving the people he wants to control. Even his own people are resisting their forced deployment to Ukraine as soldiers.

Xi, China

The government of China, led by its authoritarian leader Xi, has implemented an impossible zero-COVID crackdown policy, forcing millions of citizens to isolate in their homes, including barricading neighborhoods and sealing apartment doors, reports Philadelphia Inquirer columnist Trudy Rubin.

At the same time, Xi refuses to import successful COVID vaccines, instead opting for less-effective Chinese-made vaccines. And China’s senior citizens are “woefully under-vaccinated,” Rubin reports.

In other words, she writes, “XI Jinping has backed himself into a self-made COVID trap. If he lifts the lockdown, millions of at-risk seniors could die. Keep the lockdown, and the economy continues to suffer.”

It’s obvious that Xi also has no interest in serving the 1.4 billion people living in his country.

God, the world

Let’s start with the 10 Commandments.

The first four demand worship of God – “you shall have no other gods before me,” no idols, don’t take the Lord’s name in vain, and keep the sabbath day holy.

Any authoritarian leader could make those demands, I’ll give you that.

The next six, however, are for our good:

  • Honor our parents.
  • Do not murder.
  • Do not commit adultery.
  • Do not steal.
  • Do not bear false witness against your neighbor.
  • Do not covet.

Many of the laws of the United States are based on these principles. Why? Because they lead to a peaceful, productive society.

If our family structure is stable, then we don’t need to search for love and meaning in life from gangs, drugs, pornography, illicit relationships, or any other form of destructive behavior.

Murder and stealing are criminal offenses in every jurisdiction in this country.

Adultery destroys relationships.

Bearing false witness prevents justice.

Coveting is a state of mind, but it leads to selfish behavior that harms other people.

In the New Testament, Jesus – who came to Earth as fully God, fully man (a concept that no human can understand completely) – not only supported the 10 Commandments, he told us why we should follow them.

Anger precedes murder, Jesus said, so don’t get angry.

Lust precedes adultery, he said, so don’t lust.

Don’t make promises (vows) we can’t keep. Otherwise, people won’t trust us.

Don’t take revenge, but love your enemies. (How’s that for a way to eliminate conflict?)

Give to the poor in secret – not to serve our ego, but to actually help the poor.

Pray in secret for the same reason – to show sincerity to God, not to show off in public.

Forgive others.

Fast in secret – again, not to earn praise from other people, but to improve your relationship with God.

Don’t hoard money, because we can’t take it with us when we die. Therefore, give generously to people and causes that improve their lives.

Don’t worry about food and clothes; God will provide what we need. Other issues are more important.

Don’t judge others; God will judge us with the same measuring stick we judge others with. (Ouch!)

Ask God for whatever is good, and God will give it to us. (Putin and Xi certainly won’t.)

Serving God give us an other-person mindset. I care about you because God cares about me, and shows me how to care about you.

People, our response

That’s the difference. Putin and Xi think only about themselves, and they are destroying the lives of the people under them as a result. They don’t care.

God sent Jesus to show us how to live much better lives than that.

Jesus summed up his Sermon on the Mount with this statement:

“In everything do to others as you would have them do to you; for this is the law and the prophets.”

Matthew 7:12

God’s instructions demand a response from us. That’s why true faith is public as well as private.

Near the start of his Sermon on the Mount, Jesus said this:

“Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets; I have come not to abolish but to fulfill.”

Matthew 5:17

“The law and the prophets” refers to the Old Testament, which was the only written Scriptures Jesus had to work with. And it was enough for him.

New Testament laws build on Old Testament laws. Jesus’ death on the cross replaced the sacrificial system described in Leviticus, providing once-for-all forgiveness rather than the repeated individual animal sacrifices that God required earlier.

All of it was, and still is, for our benefit.

Jesus came to serve, and to show us how to serve. Jesus wants the best for us. That’s the hook that drew me to him a long time ago. He is not like world leaders who are serving their own interests.

No. Jesus wants the best for you and for me.

There’s a reason Jesus is still a popular leader 2,000 years after he lived. His ideas transcend time. For the good of all. For the good of individuals.

Test my theory yourself, and see if I’m right.